At sunset on Feb. 28, the month of Ramadan in the Islamic year 1446 Hijri began and around the globe hundreds of millions of believers, those willing and able, began a fast that, in fulfillment of one of Islam’s five sacred pillars, will end at sunset on Sunday, March 30.
The following is a lightly-modified iteration of a column I wrote — to explain Ramadan to friends — over 10 years ago which over time has become by far the most widely read of all my columns.
Dark.
Slightly after 4 a.m.
Still air, warm.
As I awaken I hear, above the murmur of heat surging through radiators and random street noises, faint familiar sounds, echoes, that resonate across the cosmos as the Muslim faithful are beckoned to prayer: “God is great, God is great ... prayer is better than sleep."
I awake before Fajr — before the dawn prayer — to prepare and eat a small meal, perform my ablutions and say my prayers.
Imsak. Start the fast.
Fasting during Ramadan is one of the five obligatory pillars of Islam, a month when all willing Muslims, if they are healthy and beyond puberty, daily abstain from drinking, eating, smoking and sex between dawn and sunset.
First light.
Fast.
"O men. Behold, we have created you all out of a male and a female, and have made you into nations and tribes, so that you might come to know one another. Verily, the noblest of you in the sight of God is the one who is most deeply conscious of Him. Behold, God is all-knowing, all-aware." — Qur'an:49:13, Muhammad Asad translation
Permit me, please, to share some personal Ramadan reflections with you. While, politically speaking, it’s often challenging to be Muslim in America, I wouldn’t be anywhere else. The United States is generally one of the easiest countries to live in as a Muslim, a land where Muslims can freely lead Sharia-compliant lives, a land where no one tells us whether, how or when to pray. Where no authority enforces the fast, where no one tells a woman to be covered and submissive.
Where no one intercedes between me and God.
That doesn’t mean it's easy: in America’s fractured 24/7, Tweeting, X-ing, TikTok-ing, consumerist society, breaks from materialism are difficult, and the journey back to reconnect with the center of our being — our Fitra, our innate nature — can be challenging, especially during times of conflict.
That doesn't mean it's easy, in America's current state of 24/7 political and nativist and racist dysfunction, not to be attentive to the voices which ignore that Islam has been present on this land for over 400 years.
This year, as they fast, many of the thoughts and prayers of the Umma — the global community of Muslims — will continue to be in solidarity with the people of Palestine, especially with the survivors of genocide in occupied Gaza, where food is so scarce people are actually dying of starvation and where newborns have frozen to death even as their mothers try to nourish and protect them.
Thoughts and prayers in solidarity with the people of Gaza, a land where fasting today isn't an option; it's obligatory, forced upon its inhabitants — after 17 months of death, destruction and displacement — by occupiers and oppressors armed with weapons provided by a complicit America.
Provided by my America, by war criminals in my government both from this administration and previous, to crush the futures of the weak and vulnerable.
I don't know yet how that war might affect my observances this Ramadan, a month I generally look forward to, that I welcome and annually embrace, as well as the depredations occurring in occupied Jerusalem and the occupied West Bank.
How does one observe Ramadan — how to serve the Beloved — while the weak and the vulnerable, from Gaza to Kyiv to South Africa to Haiti and beyond —
“twas the month of Ramadan in which the Qur’an was [first] bestowed from on high as a guidance unto man" — Qur'an 2:185, Muhammad Asad translation, and in that first revelation to Prophet Muhammad humankind was instructed: "Read in the name of thy Sustainer, who has created man out of a germ-cell. Read, for thy Sustainer is the most bountiful one who has taught [man] the use of the pen, taught man what he did not know." — Qur'an 96:1-5, Muhammad Asad translation
Ramadan is the time we are called to return to oneself.
Each moment, each day, each year, each Ramadan, I learn more what I do not know, and while I recognize that God lies between the human being and his heart I learn, too, that grace, forgiveness and love from my Beloved is limitless, and welcomes me back whenever I stray.
I don't know how my anger and witness over what is happening in Gaza — over my anger with my government being complicit with war crimes — might tempt me to stray from my intentions and prayers this Ramadan; I don't know how I will struggle with turning my anger over to God.
I will fast and pray — and trust in God, recognizing that Ramadan is a gift, a time to fast, pray, reflect, and renew. To heal relationships, to try and keep from getting agitated or angry toward others, to re-establish paths to goodness and hospitality.
It's hard sometimes, and there are days, these days, when that is a real challenge and I try to be mindful of who I am, mindful of God’s blessings.
Of God's insistence that we embrace truth.
Daily, our thirst and hunger reminds us not only of the abundance — sometimes excesses —of our lives but of the many for whom life daily is a struggle with oppression, poverty and hunger, of those for whom potable water is an unknown luxury, of those for whom disease and illiteracy is endemic, of those who dwell in dark, desolate corners of our Earth.
Reminds us daily of the depredations being visited upon all occupied Palestinian territory.
Throughout the world people are consumed by wars, conflict, poverty and occupation and oppression. Globally, the world is being pillaged for profit and the gifts of the Beloved are daily being abused, their beauty forsaken.
I’m in awe of those who sustain their intentions under such circumstances. Indeed, how does one sustain a family? How does a community survive? How does one have strength to embrace Ramadan when each day seems a struggle in darkness?
How do we, who live in such privilege, allow that to continue?
All faiths fast and in our scriptures, in our traditions and stories of the value of fasting, contemplation and renewal, together — with intention — we may find connectedness and paths from darkness to light.
"Is not the fast that I desire,
the unlocking of the chains of wickedness,
the loosening of exploitation,
the freeing of all those oppressed,
the breaking of the yoke of servitude?
Is it not the sharing of your bread with the hungry,
the bringing of the wretched poor into your home,
or clothing someone you see who is naked,
and not hiding from your kin in their need?"
— Isaiah 58:3-7
As people of faith we put ourselves in the hands of the Beloved.
Our Beloved put me, puts us — and this Earth — in each other’s hands and each year Ramadan reminds me I have no dignity unless all have dignity.
Ramadan reminds me I deserve no respect until all have respect, that I will be hungry until all are fed.
I will be hungry until Gaza is fed.
Today, within the beauty of Ramadan, in the armor of light that is God’s embrace, I pray for the weak, the sick and the marginalized. I reach to embrace the occupied, oppressed, dispossessed, and exploited.
Ramadan, this gift from God, this challenge to contemplate our commitment to our Beloved, to our brothers and sisters, to all humanity and to this earth, is a blessing for which I am thankful.
“Where friends unite together," Rumi wrote of Ramadan, "there in the midst of the house/by God, is a spreading plain.”
Let us gather there, family, friends, lovers — you and I — on that spreading plain in justice, peace and love.
Ramadan Kareem.
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