Bob Meade - The new normal

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"The new normal." That phrase has been popularized during the last few years. It stems from the horror of "9-11" when terrorists brought down the World Trade Center buildings, killing more people than were killed when the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, on December 7, 1941.
The new normal indicates a change in lifestyle, of the adjustments to our awareness that become necessary to avoid possible harm. It means we are to be suspicious of those things that were routinely accepted as part of our daily life in the past. We are to be suspicious because of a person's ethnicity, but we can't openly say so because that would not be politically correct. Fear, which has always been the final motivator, now moves to the head of the line.
Law abiding citizens in this country are not used to having fear as a primary motivator. We expect the "old normal" of shopping, dining out, going to school, visiting with friends, taking in a ball game, all to be devoid of our suspicions. But, in the "new normal", we are to adjust our mindsets from what had been pleasant or routine, to fear, and therefore, suspicion.
There's more though. It seems like our "new normal", includes blatantly calling others "liars", or "pathological liars". We claim others have made statements they never made because it suits our purpose to do so. We use language so foul that it causes the print media to scrap on-line commentary on the things others have written. We imply cowardice on the part of others in an effort to boast of our own manhood. We routinely put political party before country. We seek to invalidate the Constitution and the Bill of Rights because we think we're smarter than the founders. And, we righteously cry foul if those of the other party reciprocate to our bias. We allow ourselves to be subservient to politicians who overstay their time in office because of their desire for the euphoria of power. We let tenured academicians indoctrinate rather that teach. We tolerate destroying the most innocent among us, but give little thought to the fact that we were allowed to live and weren't destroyed in a similar manner. We watch as "success" is demonized as greed and we ignore the envy we perpetrate in doing so. We communicate through "social" media because it's faceless and indifferent to the emotions inherent in personal dialogue. We use 140 characters, a single "packet" of information, to remotely express a thought. We unproductively follow celebrities on Twitter for who knows why. We lose precious time standing in lines at airports watching as other are groped in search of myriad contraband items, perhaps something as dangerous as a bottle of shampoo. It matters not that it's a seven year old girl or her seventy year old grandma in a wheelchair. You see, political correctness dictates a numerical statistic not necessarily the most suspicious. And our fear creates a previously unseen hypocrisy as we are fearful of offending a Muslim, but not a Christian or a Jew. We call an on-base massacre at Fort Hood, "workplace violence" because we fear offending those of the Muslim faith. And, we ignore the fact that soldiers and their families are slighted and denied benefits because we refuse to acknowledge the incident as an act of war. (
These "new normal" items represent victories for those who would try and destroy us; those in the west who value life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. They claim victory each time they instill fear or have us change how we live our lives. The reputation of the United States as the most powerful nation in the world is shredded as two young men wreak havoc at the Boston Marathon. Innocent people are killed and scores of others are injured, suffering, and maimed for life. Two young men inflicting pain on a major metropolitan area, a state, and a nation. In addition to the physical pain and anguish, has anyone calculated the impact of lost revenues to businesses and lost wages to workers, or the impact such terror will have on the city of so many universities and first rate hospitals . . . how will the act change the way those institutions operate in a safe and secure manner, and at what cost?
The "new normal" can be a step up, it doesn't have to be a life of fear and suspicion. Maybe we can start by putting aside the negatives being hurled at each other and simply consider that the one you are trying to denigrate, may be the one you might need to come to your aid.
(Bob Meade is a Laconia resident.)